ADDICTION IS WARFARE: HOW TO WIN

As a fresh graduate from the University, I was posted to Edo state (former Bendel State) in Nigeria for the mandatory National Youth Service for all university graduates in Nigeria. I had a house mate that smoked cigarettes. Her name was Ayisha (not her real name). I used to admire the way she held theContinue reading “ADDICTION IS WARFARE: HOW TO WIN”

A life without boundaries is a life exposed to danger

All of man’s decisions in life have consequences. It is very important when taking decisions to weigh their consequences objectively to avoid pitfalls that are often attached to wrong decisions. This was my thought today as I carefully changed a decision I was about to take out of anger and frustration and I am soContinue reading “A life without boundaries is a life exposed to danger”

YEAR 2020 IN PERSPECTIVE : A REVIEW OF MY PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PLAN (PDP).

The year 2020 has been an awesomely great year for the whole world and my country Nigeria, in particular. It is a year not to be forgotten in a hurry. While the world records the highest number of casualties from the novel Covid 19 pandemic, my country has in addition to the pandemic, added severalContinue reading “YEAR 2020 IN PERSPECTIVE : A REVIEW OF MY PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PLAN (PDP).”

BE CALM – “Please listen…..”

“Mummy, Ife put earrings in my ear”  Pete, my two year old son said as we drove home from a church service. Why would she do that? I asked thinking that he meant Ife tried to make him wear earrings. “Didn’t she know you are a boy” I added and everyone in the car laughedContinue reading “BE CALM – “Please listen…..””

SAVE YOUR LIFE: READ THE MANUFACTURER’S USER MANUAL.

Packing stuff for my young children while they were in primary school was quite a task for me. I would normally stuff into their lunch boxes some snacks and their afternoon meal. But I soon discovered that they always brought back the lunch without eating it. While this made me angry, I wondered why theyContinue reading “SAVE YOUR LIFE: READ THE MANUFACTURER’S USER MANUAL.”