I had been sitting in the café for over one hour just sipping my tea and eavesdropping on a conversation between my friend’s husband, David (not his real name) and two other men who apparently were his friends. Their conversation was centered on how much their families; wives and children meant to them. I listenedContinue reading “GO HOME AND LOVE YOUR FAMILY”

You are absolutely responsible for your choices

Our Choices in life are personal and everyone is absolutely responsible for the outcome of his/her life. My mother who is 81 called me on my mobile phone on October 1, 2021 to inform me that she had just taken the second Jab of her Covid 19 Vaccine and that she was fine.  This mayContinue reading “You are absolutely responsible for your choices”

Deciding for Covid-19 vaccine…

Ever since Covid 19, many have lived in the fear of contacting the virus and probably loosing a loved one to it. Holding on to Faith in the saving grace of Christ,  I had grown far above the Covid 19 scare.  However with the introduction  of the COVID 19 vaccine, came many theories of conspiracy some ofContinue reading “Deciding for Covid-19 vaccine…”

Silence is golden…

Have you ever come across people who think they have answers to all questions? They act as if they know everything and always had a comment about every subject of discussion. Some of them practically complete all your sentences for you. They often take over the conversation and make others look stupid. I have comeContinue reading “Silence is golden…”


It was 9.pm and I was just checked-in  to my hotel room for the night. I sorted out my clothes and hung them in the wardrobe. I was going to spend a few days in the town. Tired and completely exhausted from my journey, I crashed on the sofa in the middle of the room.Continue reading “DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: NO ONE HAS A MONOPOLY”


As a fresh graduate from the University, I was posted to Edo state (former Bendel State) in Nigeria for the mandatory National Youth Service for all university graduates in Nigeria. I had a house mate that smoked cigarettes. Her name was Ayisha (not her real name). I used to admire the way she held theContinue reading “ADDICTION IS WARFARE: HOW TO WIN”