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“Mummy, Ife put earrings in my ear”  Pete, my two year old son said as we drove home from a church service. Why would she do that? I asked thinking that he meant Ife tried to make him wear earrings. “Didn’t she know you are a boy” I added and everyone in the car laughedContinue reading “BE CALM – “Please listen…..””

Do the right thing regardless of who is watching.

     There is no doubt that the first eight months of the year 2020 has made the year  like no other year in this generation. For many, it seems as if the year has not started.  A few people feel they are still living in year 2019 hoping for a miracle that will nullify theContinue reading “MY COVID 19 STORY”

Packing stuff for my young children while they were in primary school was quite a task for me. I would normally stuff into their lunch boxes some snacks and their afternoon meal. But I soon discovered that they always brought back the lunch without eating it. While this made me angry, I wondered why theyContinue reading “SAVE YOUR LIFE: READ THE MANUFACTURER’S USER MANUAL.”

It was her birthday yesterday yet when it was time to get up in the morning, she was gone. She died on her birthday. How could someone so sweet and so young go on a most treasured day? Her birthday ended up to be her death-day. It was a most painful time as I watchedContinue reading “ADIEU TO THE INVINCIBLE WARRIOR”

“I knew I was dying but failed to accept it” He walked into my office all tensed and looking very lost and confused. We were not friends. I didn’t even know his name but he had called me a few days earlier requesting to have a meeting with me. Jack (not his real name) wasContinue reading “CONFRONTING ONE’S FEAR IS THE FIRST STEP TO VICTORY IN LIFE”

Work From Home without setting measurable targets for performance evaluation of employees is an authorised vacation to employees and a loss to an  organisation. Unfortunately this is the case in many organisations today particularly in developing Africa. As we wriggle out of the Covid 19 pandemic, many organisations are at stretching point and a post-pandemicContinue reading “WORK FROM HOME: EMPLOYEE PERFORMANCE EVALUATION”

Today I started to make a little garden for my mother in the village. I had always told her that the best vegetables are the ones that go from the farm right into the cooking pot. So if you live in an accommodation that gives you access to a small piece of land, it isContinue reading “NATURE’S TRANQUILITY”

Today 17th, June is my birthday and I woke up with a most amazing song of God’s goodness in my life. A wise song writer once sang “count your blessings and name them one by one and it will surprise you what the Lord has done”. So today I made a list of my blessingsContinue reading “My precious gift”

The incidents of rape are on the increase and unfortunately many more women will be raped. Probably some are being raped right now. One story that fascinates me happened a long time ago. I titled it “The Rape of Tola”  The Rape of TolaDan had a beautiful sister named Tola. And Gerald, her half-brother, fellContinue reading ““ I am a woman. I have been assaulted, I have been abused, I have been sexually molested I have been raped. Yet how I wish someone had taught me how not to be raped””